Comments on: When Humor Isn’t So Funny https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/ We Find & Develop The World's Best Leaders Tue, 12 Nov 2019 19:53:41 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.7.1 By: Krunoslav https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6517 Sun, 15 Sep 2013 14:28:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6517 Excellent topic and great ideas.đŸ˜‰ I agree completely with you that
poking fun at yourself is often the best way to ease the situation.

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By: Kathy Klotz-Guest https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6516 Wed, 03 Aug 2011 00:31:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6516 I appreciated your article! Such a key point – fun v. funny. They are not the same thing! (Appropriate) Humor is always great if you can pull it off. However, even just have a lighthearted sense of fun makes a HUGE difference. In my experience as a marketing strategist and facilitator with an improvisational comedy background, I know that even just focusing on an attitude of fun and not forcing the funny is greatly appreciated by others. I think this is critical; when people think they have to funny, their risk-aversion often keeps them from trying anything.  It is a critical leadership skill. I have had executive recruiters tell me they won’t hire anyone without a sense of humor: Without one, they said, a person wouldn’t survive the crazy, up-and-down dynamic environment! Humor points to emotional intelligence and adaptability.

In general I totally agree with you about self-deprecation from leaders. One clarification I would add is that too much self-deprecation is NOT a good thing. It’s an easy laugh that, when overused, can be seen as (whether rightly or unfairly) a lack of confidence. Self-deprecating humor is like good perfume – use it sparingly. If you make a mistake, however, by all means – show your humanity and have a laugh.  *That* people will respect.

Thanks for the post!

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By: Ron https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6515 Thu, 28 Jul 2011 13:22:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6515 Hi Mike,

Tanveer’s joke is going to be tough to beat, but here goes:

In a busy doctor’s office, each patient approaching the receptionist’s desk is in their turn told to go to the changing area, remove their clothing, don a hospital gown, and wait to be called.
One patient in waiting gives vent to his frustration saying, ‘I don’t understand why I have to go through all this. I’m only here to be seen for a sore throat’. Another replies, ‘don’t feel bad buddy, I’m just here to pay my bill’!

Ron

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By: Anonymous https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6514 Thu, 28 Jul 2011 02:33:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6514 In reply to Mike Myatt.

Hi, Mike. Thanks for the kind words. We’ve all be victimized by somebody else’s idea of comedy. I use impro as the cor of my business and ne of the cardinal rules of improv is to NOT try and be funny. Otherwise everything dies a slow, painful death. Especially for everybody else in attendance. As my Uncle Murray used to say, “Never overlook the opportunity to keep your mouth shut.”

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By: Word Wiz https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6513 Thu, 28 Jul 2011 02:16:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6513 In reply to Mike Myatt.

Hi, Mike. Thanks for the kind words. We’ve all been “victimized” by someone’s idea of comedy. I use improv in my business and one of main rules of improv is to NOT try to be funny. Because whatever comes out of that will die a slow, painful death. Especially for everyone else.

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By: Mike Myatt https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6511 Wed, 27 Jul 2011 16:58:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6511 Hi Shawn:

I always refer to my physical characteristics by pointing out the obvious, which is that I have a perfect face for radio – the truth has set me free. Thanks for sharing Shawn.

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By: Mike Myatt https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6512 Wed, 27 Jul 2011 16:58:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6512 Hi Shawn:

I always refer to my physical characteristics by pointing out the obvious, which is that I have a perfect face for radio – the truth has set me free. Thanks for sharing Shawn.

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By: Mike Myatt https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6509 Wed, 27 Jul 2011 16:55:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6509 Hi Jim:

Thanks for the reminder of how some of the best dealt with the topic of humor. There are always great things to be gleaned from a study of History.

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By: Mike Myatt https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6510 Wed, 27 Jul 2011 16:55:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6510 Hi Jim:

Thanks for the reminder of how some of the best dealt with the topic of humor. There are always great things to be gleaned from a study of History.

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By: Mike Myatt https://www.n2growth.com/when-humor-isnt-so-funny/#comment-6508 Wed, 27 Jul 2011 16:52:00 +0000 https://www.n2growth.com/?p=2775#comment-6508 Hi Tanveer:

I actually laughed at that joke – not sure what that says about either of us, but you’re definitely in the running. Thanks for the contribution Tanveer.

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